er of the speeding car, or the veterinarian who was unable to save its life in order to justify your pain. When carried to extremes, it can distract you from dealing with and resolving the grief at hand. Depression: While this is a natural consequence of grief, it can make it difficult to deal with your feelings. It can deprive you of motivation and energy, leaving you to dwell on your grief. Remember, not everyone follows these basic stages of grief. Some people may skip or repeat a stage, while others may experience the stages in a different order. <font